" TRUST " Views that wandered in my thoughts !!!
1:05 PM
The Word called " TRUST " How important it becomes for us to abide by this? Sometimes our own world revolves around this word. Funny yet true ... !!!!
Someone asked me to put my views on it ... and i kept thinking as to what should i write ? I have once broken the TRUST of someone close to my life and i know how it feels to be with that feeling .. We all some were in our life break this word into pieces and don't realize it; Until we face or feel the same. Its not easy to always be truthful with TRUST... with life's twist n turns we always play with it.
Does that mean we don't care ? Does that mean we eternally breaking down someone ?
The Person who asked me - " What if a Friend uses the word TRUST ME while they know it doesn't matter at all... ? "
Answer to that - when a friend say's you TRUST me then just trust them coz all that they are trying to do is to make you feel comfortable and tension free... that mean they care for you and cant see you loosing hope .. on something which is bothering you ... Friends ; they are the most valuable gift you can posses. A Person who wouldn't bother what is the outcome but be with you and walk besides you forever and life long. Trust me - they are !!
TRUST - why do we blindly have faith in someone? why dont we think before we go ahead and Trust them...? Why does faith takes a different look called TRUST? Questions are so many but when we try to answer them only thing comes in our mind and directly it connects to your heart and we say DUNNO KNOW WHY ... We all go through this atleast once in life time. But do we stop Trusting people around us? we still somtimes blindly TRUST them and the cycle goes on... Love, Trust, Hope, Thoughts, care these are all a part of life which makes our life the most happening or the most miserable one to live with.
They Asked me - What if someone you Love says " TRUST me I love you "? let me ask you how far can you be without trusting the other person whom you love, the one you want to live with, can you stop yourself from trusting them, even being hurt before?
Aj dhadkan fir kisi ko yaad karke tez huye,
Ankhen fir jhuki yun kisi ke intezar karte huye,
Aakhir kyu nahi tham thi yeh lo jo humare dil se shuru huye,
Kyu meherbaan woh humare pyar pe nahi huye..
Relationships are all binded with these elements .. how far we want to run away that close it gets to us. It becomes impossible for us to be without going by that word " TRUST " hence dont rush into anything any relationship let it be... you need to think once and make sure you dont regret it later about failure but at the same time celebrate the success , as the time that's gone will never come back...
I have tried enough of trusting People who mattered to me in my life... but i guess always got stabbed because somewere i unknowingly broke someone's TRUST. How , when , where nobody knows but we as human's are bound to fall into it without any reasons... coz sometimes we forget to think from our heads and connect it straight to the heart.
So dont stop yourself from Trusting the one you want to , and when you do .. dont expect much in return as well.. Sometimes taking chances are good in life ...
Let me know what you feel about this , any suggestions or opinions are welcome ...
Love
Nitz
8 comments
really true we are bound to fall into it without any reasons... coz sometimes we forget to think from our heads and connect it straight to the heart..DONT KNOW WHY..even being hurt i still trust..:)
ReplyDeletewhen we trust we will never be hurt by heart..as we know why they are trying to hurt knowingly..
If we start judging the people we will be having no time to love them..we live for ourselfs so we trust,care,love and get hurt knowingly or unknowingly.its good to take chances sometimes.
ReplyDeleteNever to suffer would never to have been blessed.anyways nice article
Thanks Preeti !!!!
ReplyDeleteIts true .. thats y i felt its not a bad thing to take chances sometimes ... and when u take dont expect too much as well ... everything has its own time to come ... hence do what your heart desiers to ...
ya nice..but i know some people who hide their emotions as they feel they don't desever and often hurt themself by hurting loved ones,friends knowingly.
ReplyDeletegod help them..cant help such person.
i think the other person have to understand why they are hurt before saying sorry and let it go.
Tell me about it ... I have knwn the pain of being hurt by someone wh never bothered to tell me the reason for hurting ... and that was the time i realised that TRUSTING just means u taking a chance in ur life ... u never know how it turns out to be ...? how ppl would react? how things would take a turn in ur life and how would it amke stand still for a moment ?
ReplyDeleteThis is LIFE and yes we will trust one another still coz it has to move on ... nothing would stop this ... hence dont expect much but just do what your heart desires...
Love is needing to be loved and not letting it go. life moves on anyways we need to be with our love.Each man kills thing he loves and its true.
ReplyDeletejust say
One love One heart let's get together and feel all right..
t'd be best for one of them to speak up
But they prefer to pretend it does not exist.they are young and life is long and there is time to kill ;)today.. but they say child is grown the dream is gone.
Life is always been around LOVE, but is it worth wasting our life in tears and holding them when they themselves wanna go ... Sometimes it best to let it go ...
ReplyDeleteWe try our best to make sure they speak up but when they dont then?? do u still think i u need to hold them ...? Love is never letting go but its is also never holding it back ....
understanding are the roots
ReplyDeletewhere the tree of trust grows -
and give the fruits of love..