Relationships Never Die Of A Natural Death !!!
9:56 AMHow true is the saying above!! For instance take a minute and think, Have you ever ended any beautiful relationship of trust n respect for such silly reasons? Hurt them for something that doesn't matter at all?
I am sure most of us did, doesn't matter if it ended with all your consent or sometimes without. We all tend to go with the flow of the situation and end up hurting our self or others. "Situations" worse thing to describe it. I always believed relationships needs to be nurtured and cared about it for it to grow a long way ahead, just a smile to show you care, a message saying "I Love you" to show you there forever, Holding on to the stumbling relation and say " Everything will be fine " showing you will face every moment together. These small gestures can do wonders in their life, But do we come forward and do them for our loves ones without thinking if they have done anything in return for us or not. I have seen many of them complaining that their partner doesn't care for them and hence they care a damn.... and in my mind a laugh and think - "How stupid of this person that they compare Love & Care with all these ego and attitude, Is it really worth it?
My life neither has been prefect, it had been tangled with loads of ups & down until i didn't give up my ego or you can say attitude. After few hard lessons that relationship has taught me, I now understand the depth of it. Its easy to make relations, be friends, make close relations like brothers or sisters, being a intimate partner and others. But what makes it DIE?? Is it attitude, Ego the only reasons? Each one of the reasons have their own effect but people dont understand that this will in return end up being a disaster.
I always wondered when you love a person what is it there to be insecured about them? So does that mean you don't trust your own loved ones? You don't trust the love and respect you have for the relationship?
The last time I was with a friend of mine who had a strange situation, this contained jealously and insecurity from their partner's Sister like figure. After listening to the complete conversation I just wanted to go up to her and ask what is it that your so scared off ? You love a person doesn't mean that you have bonded them to be only your, He is married to you coz he loves you, doesn't that give you enough security ?? Why are you so jealous of someone whom he calls as his " Sister " ?? WHY??? I just couldn't digest the fact that someone can be so immature and stupid to spoil a relationship and think that they will be happy forever after ruining it. Sometimes people forget that what goes around comes around too.. The worst when he said my friend that he loves his wife too much to hurt her. I kept thinking to figure out if he loved his wife so much then does he need to accompany her in her false attitude and thoughts? Doesn't he has guts to confront her and make her understand that she is wrong if she thinks by breaking one relation the other will go on happily ???
After so much running in my head i finally asked her to quit this brotherly feeling and get out of it as its not worth. Why do you need to shed tears for the one who thinks ur trash? Who wants to have people around only which his wife agrees to keep them? For god sake this lady was someone he called as sister and not some chick that you pass ur time with, how can someone have issues with that?? I still don't get a valid reason for it.
Relationship are not god made but human made hence it doesn't matter if you are blood related or a stranger is more than a blood related relation for you. All that matters is the care and respect for each other. That when i understood the meaning to - "Relationships Never Die Of A Natural Death !!! But they are Killed by Ego, Attitude and sometimes Insecurity"
Do you think what he did to my friend was right by listening to his wife?? whats your thought on it??
Love,
Nitz
2 comments
What he did was not good at all... But i also feel he is helpless here. Its very difficult to fight with stupid wives with lame/no logics. But probably he should take some control over her/ stupid attitude to make her understand. Its good that his friend quit his friendship cos anyways he was not worth it. Might be he will realize it one day. That would be too late.
ReplyDeleteHe might fell relaxed now solving this problem of his wife and making her happy. But no doubt she will come up with hundreds such silly/stupid thoughts like this and the question is would he still fulfil all her non-relaistic expectations ?
Pity that guy who has lost the pure relation of frienship and might lose many in future.. :)
Crazy world & Crazy attitude of people here to take...
ReplyDeleteFor what i know love is eternal
World is filled with good n bad experiences to give..
Hoping one day he would be on the other side to take...