There was a time when family's strength lied on the people who tied it with their love, care, restrictions n may be some were religious beliefs. As even though people didn't like them all they did obey and it resulted in togetherness and care for one another.  

What is the importance of it today?  We say that we are independent and hence don't need any restrictions or beliefs or ancestral thoughts to bind us. Which resulted in Hatred, Jealousy, Ego etc within us. Strange but true , I am not talking about this without any experience but it had gone thru it and saw the changes myself.  A time when our Grandfather was alive and his rules n restrictions were alive, the word Family was much more different from what it is now. 

Relatives - aren't they suppose to be your strength? How many of us have gone thru a rough phase in life because of them?? I am sure many of us would have raised their hands up now.  Uncles, Aunts, Cousins, Paternal & Maternal side relations etc. have treated you the same as their daughter or sons? if you ask me its NONE !!

How cruel the world is when it comes to money? Is money so important to us that we forget our own blood relations? We feel the happiness when we see them down and failed in life? Where does all that EGO comes from , is that Money Magic??

Yes, Definitely Money is important; it made me believe as I see that every day in my life. How a blood related sister feels happy to see her brothers draining in life and she wouldn't think of helping them or standing with them but instead goes to their house and shows off her fake Sympathy and put them down.  Our own siblings will not think twice before asking their share when the time of crisis, Sometimes they become the reason behind it. The one who respects love & relationships is always stood as Dumb and lost everything but would still have a SMILE and feel happy that the opposite is none other than my Sister /Brother. How foolish isn't it? Sometimes in life we have to be selfish when we know the intentions of the other person is to hurt us. This Circle of love, Relationship, Bond etc. arent meant for today's genre. 

A beautiful and Innocent heart doesn't matter but a beautiful skin and fair color matters to Ur relatives as they don't want to be teased and felt ashamed off while introducing you to their circle of friends or world.  These small things are never noted down normally. But sometimes when see a hurted heart or some who longs of such relation you will know the reason behind it. Why go far, I am myself an example. always wanted a Elder brother to hold my hands and love me unconditionally like my father does but instead i always was ignored and left out cause i am not good looking or rather not fit to be in their company. Hurt every much within but still went on thinking i would have someone like that in my life once for sure. Finally after so many years of longing i did find one such person & my family pic looked complete. But not for long.. after 4 beautiful years of that relationship it also had to come to end being bullied by someone else ego & immaturity and thus again the heart was hurt. 

Crazy world and Crazy attitude of people here to take,

For what I know LOVE is eternal,

World Filled with Good & Bad experiences to give,

Hoping one day he would be here on the other side to take.

So tell me what do you think or have experienced on over this " Relative " or " Family " ?

Love

Nitz