Life & Love -- Alot to Learn from!!

Days Pass by and sometimes you never realize how fast time flies away.. Suddenly one fine day when you look back you realize; What might have passed by you and you never noticed. Missed few hints, people who wanted to be there with you , chances that you might have never notices, touches that you never felt, Kiss which said it all but you never heard anything... Funny yet a feeling within asking how did i miss it? Why didnt i never understand it?

Life is too short for us to even notice such small things until and unless it is said to us. We always get on the path of finding things that our heart or body desires , Leaving behind the unsaid and moments that would matter the most. Funny, Yet true we all do this.. knowing or unknowingly some point of our life.

Life seems like a mystery box sometimes filled with something we never expected and sometimes it just turns the way we want it to be.  Till date what i have seen, it unfolds all the mysteries and keeps the pieces in front of you to join them and see what is life expecting from you... rather what you expect from it... Love every moment of it which will make you feel alive and keep you going ... I have heard this from so many of them but when experienced it .. it truly makes you feel alive. Realized that on the path of achieving something dont loose the small gestures.. a moment of making someone smile just because of you...

after all that i have gone through , the ups and downs , the highs n lows in life, the betrayal and wonderful friends, smiles that i shared and tears that came out running in front of the mirror... It has taught me how to keep it going, Strong and believing that everything will be the way it has to be.  And today when i look back i just wanna THANK life for holding on to me yet.

Money , Name , Fame does it take away the charm of your relations?

We can always have an debate over this and everyone would have their point of view and yeah sometimes it may seem right as well... I asked myself what is more important - Money - that gives us a luxury filled life continues with Name in the society and Fame as well... I didnt have an answer .. in search for it i am putting down my thoughts ...

Myself earning good enough that i can run my life, Life that is filled with liveliness, someone right next to me and guiding me at every curve of life, Family who i know will be there i need them to. Still i am running with thousand things in my mind to have something of my own, Its nothing wrong but somewhere i have an urge to become something on my own. I have seen many of them who always urged to become and make a mark but they forget sometimes that in that process you are slowly loosing of what you have which is so beautiful, Most of them i have known have always been hyper, Tensed and in return everything blows towards the family and ultimately they go far away .... Some carry their life and carrier in 2 different routes which makes them give time and respect to all their loved ones... This is what we wanted? what is the purpose of making a mark when our surroundings are not happy, Does Name and fame get us all the precious time that we lost?

Then we think thrice;  is that all worth ... The answer is still un-known to me ... reason for that is .. there are many relations that only needs money and luxury to be their support, Now we hardly find people who genuinely want to make up a living happily in what they have, I might be wrong .. and i wish i am.. but this is what life has shown me .... an bitter example... How many of us think that outer appearance is not that important in a relation and all that matters is heart and emotions.... people who read my articles .. told me that what i wished for is all a fairy tale... yes i agree to it.. coz now this generX needs to look good and feel good factor...

Hence we sometimes we live an materialistic life...do you agree? Becoming Someone with all the Fame and Name might even lead by loosing alot of people but we still do.... One Life... and so many things to do in this short span... One one wants to be behind others. Is that right ...?

Any experiences you wanna share? Please do...

Love,
Nitz

Just another day of my life... Amazingly a thought strikes my mind " Why am i not writing now?" This question made me get up from my bed and walk towards my laptop. In search for the answer i went through my old post and thought; has anything changed, knowing that no one reads or rather my self satisfaction is completely put me down, that i have stopped writing? Last night i watched a Bollywood Flick called " Turning 30 " A simple and some were related to what happens in our day to day life.

We the Woman Gender at some point get weak with our emotions or with society and community boundaries. When we move ahead of others we always find someone stopping us with all the various reasons in the world. at the same time when we are a little behind we are again being questioned for various reasons. Strange, but true when we go through the worst phase of our life and want someone to understand us.. the next seat is always empty. Most of our relations are not working because we expect so much and when there is nothing in return, we put ourself down and finish a good relation. Then starts the blame game..between the same two people who were so much in love and wanted to take each others good and bad deeds.

Why is that?
Why do we need or belive that there should be someone to always understand us?
Why do we look at the next seat of ours and feel bad about it being empty?

I have lived all my life by believing that friends are the most important key part of our life's. Best of friends do have misunderstandings, fights, sometimes they even dont want to see each others face. But can they forget the best of times they spent together? After a huge fight i did stop talking to my friend but as days went by this part brought a emptiness in me, Someone i called a friend is no more there in my life. Sad !! We even spoke to each other after 5 yrs of silence .. wanted to tell her so much ...but i just couldn't. I guess i move forward in life and even she did ... but now even knowing so many people and sharing a good relation's the next seat for my friend is still empty. The Picture Frame is Still empty. This Ends with a broad smile on my face as life needs to carry on and everyone needs to play their roles.

Whom should i think will understand this? Family Nahhh.. Someone close to my heart  Nahh... People i know whom i call friends Nahhh.... No one can actually , People will laugh at me saying what a fool ur? It Sounds Funny sometimes that someone like me can feel all these emotions. But i do! Sometimes emotions are better understood and shared by ourself's, I have everything what i require in life; Luxury, Money, Family, Few people whom i call Friends, Good Carrier, hence according to others i have nothing to be sad or feel empty about. Right !! It sounds so much like Amitab's Dialogue na -  Mere pass MAA hai ... He He ...

Life and Emotions needs to carry on together. How much ever we try somethings cant be forgotten and sometimes are better unsaid or hidden in the corner of your heart.

This is something for you Priya after spending 15 yrs of friendship with you i never really met anyone with whom i can share the same time or a BOND that was so strong called Friends. Miss you .. Hope the Lord blesses you with loads of Love, Companion ship , Success & Smiles. I am SORRY about all the misunderstandings and fights that popped up between us. Good or Bad Friends are always there for each other. I am sorry as i wasn't around.


Love,
Nitz

Jab bhi ut jaye yeh kadam
na roko aur na toko unhe ab,
manzile tho har raah ki mod par mil jayengey
magar kadam jab apne se chalne lage
Tho har manzilon mein raah ka silsila ban jayega..

Khushiyon ka kya teekhana hai yahan,
jab gum se yahan rishtey majboot ho jayegey,
chalte rehna hi zindagi hai yaara,
jo mile yahan raah par wohi dil ke kareeb ho jayengey...