Forgiveness - Forget & Forgive

10:27 AM

                                    Forget and Forgive

This Line ahh i would have heard it from so many of them. Even from those who arent following this; yeah that is funny Ha Ha i know i thought so. FORGIVENESS is such a difficult word for me to understand sometimes.


FORGIVE - Why do you think you need to forgive when someone close to you has hurt you more than once?
FORGET - Can you ever forget someone who touched ur heart or sould once in a lifetime, a friend or even a stranger?


Yes, i guess i am getting this too complicated but this is what i feel or even go through when i think of forgiving someone close to my heart. It's entirely on we who will decide to move on or stop our life there and keep weeping about it. As far as i have seen people generally move on and am sure they are mush happier today, but there is a small space in thei corner of their heart of the pain. The rest of the group stop their life and think the world ends there as they have been hurt. BLAME game then starts, huh

Sometimes i wonder do we have so much of time left in our life theat we waste in thinking who hurt us and how come we HURT them back. Life is too short and the policy of FORGET & FORGIVE works pretty well. We do meet people in our journey of life who might not be the ones for us, but we end to lean on them and then when they HURT i chokes us up. I wonder have i ever Forgiven anyone in my life .. people did come n go in my life as well. but i guess i choose to move on and then still a corner of my heart i have the pain of being HURT and then i guess i havent FORGIVEN but just Forgotton them.

I did sometimes Cry over it when i sat alone and that thought crossed over it. Felt sorry of myself that even moving life ahead i couldnt come over it. Didnt have a solution, cos i didnt wanna go back to them and ask WHY DID THEY DO THIS TO ME? WHY? will that matter to them? will they have a good explaination for this? huh i laughed and thought first of all WILL BE I BE HAPPY AFTER THAT!!!! I dont think so, coz then that reason would Haunt me, so i guess it was time for me to FORGIVE them in my heart and get out of this sadness.

If you have been hurt or felt alone .. just think twice before you weep out, is it WORTH? will that help you become better person for the other loved ones. I have met the best of people now in my life .. they make me a better person day by day. Someone i know i can relie on and also lean on when i need a shoulders. TIME n TIDE waits for none !! its is so true ... Life is too short for us to weep for that person who doesnt bother or belong to stay with us. FORGIVE without FORGETTING is a useless exercise, untill and unless u forgive them forgetting them is a stupid thing to think of. You need to realize there are new ventures, new stories to write, new people to meet, new feelings to feel. We cant miss all this coz they still sitting with a broken HEART.

I would always would love to see each one of you to smile from bottom of your heart. Coz when u smile the magic wanders the world around you. Its like someone somewere just lives to see you SMILE, and we are not aware of it, but it surely feels good. There is ray of HOPE for a better tomorrow, Life filled with what ever you dreamt off. So come on, wipe the tears following and close your eyes and just FORGIVE them, juz say it to yourself  " Whatever happened is over and i forgive you for that " and then have a SMILE on your Pretty face, Start your life with new ideas, new people, chasing your dreamz.

Remember... Every Morning a new stories starts, a new venture , Few good people we meet n few we just wanna pass by.. Every sec we spend today is worthwhile remembering. A smile that we share , A laugh that we have,talks that we exchange will always differe by the end of the day. Hence live it the FULLEST and let go what ever is in your mind and heart coz we never know if we would get a chance again :-)

Keep Smiling from HEART :-)
Love,
Nitz

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4 comments

  1. arvindMay 30, 2010 at 11:46 AM

    its so nice..
    but the word "forgive" too - put a barrier between you and your loved one..
    just understand - just understand..
    if so there is no need for change urself and to change them too..

    an understanding - means - "u r pouring an unconditional love"

    ie you understand that - in this short span of life - let them to grow - in their way or nature..

    me liked the way - u have written..

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  2. OnCloudNine9June 3, 2010 at 10:18 AM

    i love this ! your writing is awesome . i cant wait to read more :) im definatly following ! follow me back ?

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  3. Nita SanchetiJune 5, 2010 at 7:22 PM

    Hey thanks for following me ... i do write what comes or wht i see or feel ... hence i might be wrong sometimes or right in some way ... but still these are emotions that just flows...

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  4. AnonymousJune 6, 2010 at 10:33 PM

    your writing is awesome..we cant forget someone who touched my heart..i love him n cant even forget or blame..sometimes thought n tried to convince myself that i dont deserve n let go off.sometimes Feel sorry of myself that even moving life has become difficult.hope that person understands.
    we never know if we would get a chance again :-)

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