11:25 AM
" koi jho hume apne hone ka ehsaas dilaye,
khush bhi ho ya gum haath se haath chalkar dikhaye,
Rishton mein mazbhuti isisike Bharose chalpaye,
Andheron mein roshini ki umeed bhi yahi dilaye "
FRIENDS - Past few days i have notices what life would have been if we didnt have this strong BOND called FRIENDS...how easy is to HURT others and just get away with it ... That is the TIME you know ur FRIENDS are there as to no matter what happens they hold you up and make u feel as if everything was OKAY.
Something i wanted to share after seeing a FRIEND of Mine going through. Lets start by saying they became " Friends " coz i feel they clicked each other.. Khushi thought she could trust and relie on this person and may be a long run friendship would occur... Days passed and each day they promised and shared a beautiful relation... But then All of a Sudden things Changed and she was left alone ... the SMILE on her face disappread .. REASON - the person whom she believed to be FRIENDS with turned out to get away from her for some Social Reason .
Thinking they would be FRIENDS again she passed her days... I saw her each day that passed by and then thought that it was high time to talk to her.... When we spoke She told me that the one she trusted as friends.. was never a friend to her....
Something crossed my Mind .... Why do we start a talk and make the opp believe that u will always be there when you know you wont... ? Why do you have to make someone SMILe n then leave them with TEARS ? Friends are not for only happy times in life , No matter how you are , no matter how boring, Negative, Saddy, worst the other person is ? Arent we suppose to expect them the way they are ...
He left Khushi in such a state when she actually might have needed a friend like him the most ... But in return that FRIEND told her common friends that she was matured enough to think abt her life and carry on ... He cant intrude in her Personal LIfe ... and just walked off her life without talking to her one last time or giving her a reason as to why he made her believe in that relationship.
WHAT HE DID WAS IT RIGHT ? HE LEAVING A FRIEND IN PAIN DIDNT BOTHER TO KNOW HOW SHE IS , DIDNT WANNA HOLD HER UP WHEN SHE IS DOWN, ARENT FRIENDS SUPPOSE TO BE LIKE THAT !!!
What if tomorrow we are in such a situation wont we want someoen to hold us up, Make us feel better and yes in all these situations if we know that we are to close to that person and it would make a difference in their life .. Wouldnt we stay ? We say so much on FRIENDSHIP and when time comes to be there we run away ? I teared thinking abt it ... Its BEST not to have such a person in our life who wouldnt bother to Love you, Hold you, be on ur side when u need them the most.
Love
Nitz
7 comments
nice article..ya if we trust someone n get hurt by saying i am or you are matured to think about life.when one is hurt deeply ,its difficult to trust anyone in life and person would lose confident and ruin their life and the other person would never know why it happened.smile will disappear and difficult to pretend but still they pretend as if everything is fine.
ReplyDeleteI think we always fall in love the very first time we see the man of our dreams, even though, at the time, reason may be telling otherwise, and we may fight against that instinct, hoping against hope that we won't win, until there comes a point when we allow ourselves to be vanquished by our feelings.."someone told me these words..
ReplyDelete"Love is not love that alters when it alteration finds."i think three things of life that are most valuable -
ReplyDeleteLove, self-confidence & friends.Love, true love, is that which can give the most
without asking or demanding anything in return.
Yes i do agreee with what you all have said ... I was hurt very badly ... As i still dont know the reason and y this happened ... it does kill me when i think abt it ... LIfe isnt that easy to carry on ... but i guess as my loved ones told me ... move ahead and dont look back .. i guess i choose that ... but i know some were sometime we would be facr to face n then i would ask .. AS TO Y ME ?
ReplyDeletewe have not fall for everybody - in our life..
ReplyDeletejust very few.. very special..
just ask her to carry on her love -
what ever happens..
dont compel him..
but
he could'nt stop ur love..
Rita
one could'nt understand -
how a soul felt..
u could pacify her -
but that may staioned within
her in rest of her life..
that is "LOVE"
love feels like heaven but it can hurt like hell..thats love so i cant move without my love and i cant change.but may be have to accept my fate as my parents wish.i love my parents too.he has to feel her love once and be back before she kills herself.every blessings ignored becomes cruse.
ReplyDeleteLove is something we dont control it just happens and when u never know ... and when u know its high time then ... well kinda learning things tht i feel or when i see ppl feel ...
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