Life & Love -- Alot to Learn from!!

"Even if you ask me a thousands times over and over again, my love is always you.
What must I do to make you come back, to make you love me again?
Would you know of my burning heart?
Even if I try and try to surpress it, I cry.......
I can't forget and I end up looking for you again.
I can't take another step and though you're not here,
I long for you again and again, as I call out your name.."

This is So true .. its simple but very difficult when it actually go through this phase in life. Something can never be understood but just felt. One of this is LOVE... making them understand what it is ..its next to impossible but yes they understand better when they feel it. But the saddest part is by the time the other person feels it .. you have almost spend most of the moments unknown n unfelt...

And once the person comes in our life and then goes back is when u r heart cries out. We always wonder Why they left? why didn't turn back and see if we longed for them? why didnt they feel the same pain that we feel? We indulge in such questions that even when we want to let it go we are unable to. Another emotion which i personally cant handle is LET IT GO ... i can never and i have never done that .. everytime we try we get into it more n more. I know Love is not the only emotion or something we should FOCUS but yes its a important part of our lifes. We might be the best in our work , the most glam person around, reached the heights of the sky but when you come back home your eyes will always search for that one soul with whom u connect.

How much ever we try and be away and debate on this end of the day we all Rise n Fall in LOVE... It Holds u up in some cases and it does put u down some times. But it still feels the best when u feel it in ur HEARTS

Love you always ... you all live in my heart and shall always be there !!!!

Nita

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ty7QxmNvwNk

This is for you dear :-) No grudges , No crying any more , No blaming and the best which i am sure u will feel relieved is NO MORE Questions anymore.

A friend saying Bye for sometime .... Miss ya
Ni

Chances - We normally don't take Chances in life thinking of what might happen or turn out. Well i can be honest here - I NEVER TOOK chances too in life or in any path. I always was scared and guess what i fairly did anything wonderful or felt of being amazed huh, Funny how things change when ur mindset changes. I have heard this and never applied...but i guess now i did:


 Do you want to be safe and good, or do you want to take a chance and be great? 

What would you choose - Just to good and safe which is in a way also favorable to many coz its LIFE for them and they are comfortable living their life as that gives them excitement in a way itself. There are those who would love to risk and take a chance on the path and sometimes a failure but sometimes turns out to be fair game which is great as its something we decided and fun putting ur mind in it.


Chances are taken in many a conditions; we should take chances in life coz what needs to go will always Go .. nothing can stop it.. but what if we give one try to it and see or feel a differences...

Have anyone of you taken CHNACES in life about anything ?
Please do share your thoughts !!!

Love Nitz

Ajeeb es dil ki halath hai aj kya kahe,
Thame rakha hai es pyaar ko es kadar humne,
Muddathon ke baad ehsaas hua zindagi jeena hai kya kahe,
Jab jeena shuru kiya dil se unhe jane diya humne....

Pyaar ko thame nahi rakh payengay hum bhi kya kahe,
Bada mushkhil hai unhe rokna yeh jana humne,
Hokar bhi humare nahi huye humare kya kahe,
Baarish hai aj aansuo ki es dil mein chupaye humne....

An Emptiness Today That I Felt: 

"There comes a point when you just Love someone. Not because they're good, or bad, or anything really. You just love them. It doesn't mean you'll be together forever. It doesn't mean you won't hurt each other. It just mean you Love them. Sometimes in spite of who they are, and sometimes because of who they are. And you know that they Love you, sometimes because of who you are, and sometimes in spite of it"

Yes very true infact, we don't have to love someone because we see something in them coz when that happens and time passes by love also fades away. When your heart realizes that you love someone no matter how they are , no matter if they black or white, old or young, rich or poor, no matter whatever, but there is LOVE and reason becomes simpler - You love them coz of LOVE and nothing else .


Everyone i met till now told me that LOVE is DIMINISHING from this world, but they dont see the fact that is the only emotion that keeps everyone alive. We have so many debates on this LOVE but do we actually mean everything that we say? Life is interesting as it teaches so many emotions and roles to play and tangle it up for US.

                                    Forget and Forgive
This Line ahh i would have heard it from so many of them. Even from those who arent following this; yeah that is funny Ha Ha i know i thought so. FORGIVENESS is such a difficult word for me to understand sometimes.


FORGIVE - Why do you think you need to forgive when someone close to you has hurt you more than once?
FORGET - Can you ever forget someone who touched ur heart or sould once in a lifetime, a friend or even a stranger?


Yes, i guess i am getting this too complicated but this is what i feel or even go through when i think of forgiving someone close to my heart. It's entirely on we who will decide to move on or stop our life there and keep weeping about it. As far as i have seen people generally move on and am sure they are mush happier today, but there is a small space in thei corner of their heart of the pain. The rest of the group stop their life and think the world ends there as they have been hurt. BLAME game then starts, huh

Sometimes i wonder do we have so much of time left in our life theat we waste in thinking who hurt us and how come we HURT them back. Life is too short and the policy of FORGET & FORGIVE works pretty well. We do meet people in our journey of life who might not be the ones for us, but we end to lean on them and then when they HURT i chokes us up. I wonder have i ever Forgiven anyone in my life .. people did come n go in my life as well. but i guess i choose to move on and then still a corner of my heart i have the pain of being HURT and then i guess i havent FORGIVEN but just Forgotton them.

I did sometimes Cry over it when i sat alone and that thought crossed over it. Felt sorry of myself that even moving life ahead i couldnt come over it. Didnt have a solution, cos i didnt wanna go back to them and ask WHY DID THEY DO THIS TO ME? WHY? will that matter to them? will they have a good explaination for this? huh i laughed and thought first of all WILL BE I BE HAPPY AFTER THAT!!!! I dont think so, coz then that reason would Haunt me, so i guess it was time for me to FORGIVE them in my heart and get out of this sadness.

If you have been hurt or felt alone .. just think twice before you weep out, is it WORTH? will that help you become better person for the other loved ones. I have met the best of people now in my life .. they make me a better person day by day. Someone i know i can relie on and also lean on when i need a shoulders. TIME n TIDE waits for none !! its is so true ... Life is too short for us to weep for that person who doesnt bother or belong to stay with us. FORGIVE without FORGETTING is a useless exercise, untill and unless u forgive them forgetting them is a stupid thing to think of. You need to realize there are new ventures, new stories to write, new people to meet, new feelings to feel. We cant miss all this coz they still sitting with a broken HEART.

I would always would love to see each one of you to smile from bottom of your heart. Coz when u smile the magic wanders the world around you. Its like someone somewere just lives to see you SMILE, and we are not aware of it, but it surely feels good. There is ray of HOPE for a better tomorrow, Life filled with what ever you dreamt off. So come on, wipe the tears following and close your eyes and just FORGIVE them, juz say it to yourself  " Whatever happened is over and i forgive you for that " and then have a SMILE on your Pretty face, Start your life with new ideas, new people, chasing your dreamz.

Remember... Every Morning a new stories starts, a new venture , Few good people we meet n few we just wanna pass by.. Every sec we spend today is worthwhile remembering. A smile that we share , A laugh that we have,talks that we exchange will always differe by the end of the day. Hence live it the FULLEST and let go what ever is in your mind and heart coz we never know if we would get a chance again :-)

Keep Smiling from HEART :-)
Love,
Nitz

Its Amazing when i sit down to watch a movie, keep the pop-corn ready, some good drink to go with it. A mix of emotions which i go through while watching any romantic movie. Guess i never liked action movies as there are no emotions in them LOLzz. I still remember that i cried till the end of the movie and awhile after that also is  " Taare Zameen par " and my first movie that i teared was - " Notebook " It was too much of emotions for me to handle it.


Life - I think its also similar to movies, written and directed by GOD himself and we are the character just playing our roles. Along with the movie we also tend to get in action and emotions sometimes. Few are completely emotional and few ones are rocking , action pact. Ha Ha Smiling here thinking what name should i give for my movie?? I am sure few people will come up with weird ones !!!


There has been always something happening, new conversations, people's view & opinions, Gossips HA HA. But what is interesting is that we all talk about LOVE, LIFE and other things, the top priorities on the discussion remains the discussion of LIFE< LOVE<FRIENDS. I get so much involved in it that sometimes i kinda become a part of it , its not bad actually but its just a conversation. The reality and what happens to each person is a different thing all together, the trust and beliefs i see there is something wonderful. Its like there will be someone who will shed out their fears , sorrows , happiness which will mirror mine sometimes .. that is the time i feel i am not playing the only character but there are others too .. May be, but as time passed i met few people who showed me the truth of LIFE which i never felt before .. there were times i teared out for them. No i wasnt being a agony aunt but just while knowing and making a bond with them.


Life is Hard !!! Life is FUN !!! Life is Action Pact !!! So many parts of this movie but the director is just ONE who sits above all. LOLzzzz Isnt he Great ??


Humans have inherited a slogan for themselves - Whatever happens, happens for the best !!


Hence whatever they go through they take it as test drive.. aur bus yuhi chalti jati hai unki gadi. 


Few days i have been thinking all this and didn't know how to pen it down, as i wasn't myself, so many changes around me didnt know how to react & was a little lost as well. As all the movies end, not sure how the ending as been decided for me by the director, but i guess - Life is Strange , were we are happy and sometimes Sad. Every day spent seems so perfectly planned by HIM. I met few amazing people online and our bond went strong, i felt as if we knew each other from a long time, seemed like yesterday we got apart. Couldn't believe they spoke my words when it was in my mind only.


That feeling was something like a movie recap scene ha ha ha. These lines  " life is a stage were we are just the dolls and God is the one making us play our part " is very old one but i kinda relate to it now and that is what inspires me ... But one good thing in all these is the bond that you own are so beautiful that you gt to keep them safe till then end. I will be proud if i do that. Hold on to all i have till the last mint of my life.


I am sure all well will end well.....


I guess i bored u guys enough now !!!!
Have Fun :-)


Love,
Nita