Life & Love -- Alot to Learn from!!

Sitting in the workstation and thinking what makes life worthwhile... The people, love, smiles that we share , dreams that makes me feel alive... is that all .. Strangest things happen over a short span of time... Yes indeed !! Met the person with whom a share a lovely relation called "brother - sister" We Fight , We love and yes Protect too .. always there .. Isnt it sweet to find a relation out of blue .. I wonder what i would be doing all these years in this company without Sunil.. the journey of 3 yrs almost now seems so much filled with joy, smiles, fun, and out of all a brother in disguise of an angel... whom i love alot ... Sunil is called "Sunu" A guy with loads of dream .. well a small change.. dreams of not being a millionaire .. yes it is always there but also being with lots of hot chicks ... ha ha ha !!! Sunu seems quite guy but too naughty ... and loving to ... The next was PHANI .. a pakka telguite .. as the name he is also funny ... lol :) Very sweet and caring. we have been like a group for last 3 yrs now and seems interesting as we all have had fights but still together.. it difficult to find people who mean u so much to be with u in every up n down , i have found the best of friends in these guys... no matter how long we would try and remain the same as long as we can ..
Sometimes we tend to get more than what we are suppose to get n handling that is difficult ... I share my smiles with a few people who actually mean alot to me in LIFE ... we always talk of being happy but did we ever realize every small little things which brings smile on our face is HAPPINESS n LIFE. Life is so beautiful when i see around n notice how some lives actually smile n feel happy. And if i am the reason then its a life with a purpose.. Doesn't it sound philosophical .. I know  but its so true. Those lives give me a reason to live and do something so that they can smile.. tears dont roll out just like that its only when u feel something good .. remember someone who would have been a reason for u to live another moment .. HaPPY TEARS  are also vulnerable sometimes, we should live of the little moments like that .. here is a song dedicated to you all out there and the ones who give me a moment to live for :

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vBErCVNP6rM&feature=channel

 Today i sit back and re-think that how strangers can be the ones best suprize in ur life. Have you ever felt the same? Met someone might even be for a day or 1 hour but that time spent with them u felt worth while ??

Love,
Nitz

Letter's Of my fear and questions to you,
Never knew how and when to show it to you,
Here I am with all my Luv in front of you,
Sure you would feel what a Fool is standing in front of you...

Why didnt i have the courage to follow you,
Why didnt i tell you that I am head over heals for you,
Every tear and smile reminds me how happy I was with you,
Sure you would feel what a Fool is standing in front of you...

For the roads that apart us knowing it wont lead to YOU,
The time that spent was so pure and true with you,
Am i gonna wait for the time to turn towards you,
And let you know what i felt or feel was so true,

Luv is not a emotion nor mere sentiment to prove,
Our Luv would remain the same forever and true,
This is me writing a letter with my fear n luv to you,
As its true now would remain even after years Just for you,
Sure you would feel what a Fool is standing in front of you...

Not sure why ? When n how people change? feelings n relationship change? I am not even sure if i should write it here?? But i have to .. just felt today how lonely i am ...what a fool i am ?? all this while i thought i had someone atleast to talk or share.. but in my thoughts i forgot that everyone have their life and no one have time for this stupid thoughts... so many questions in my head asking as to WHY ? Why ME? how much ever ur wrapped with the society n its rules .. how ever u smile to show ur happy its not enough. Atleast to yourself u know what ur, what is killing u inside, what does it make u so weak? I knew all the reasons but could never walk a step ahead for the solution Why pleanty of reasons to stop me.
Can never know when does life take a turn and show u ahead whts instore for u..and today i heard from a friend of mine as to what really made her talk to me... and now that she has no reason to talk ... i am not sure how should i react .. like an adult i should i chuck it out .. or like a friend i should get upset as i am feeling now .. now i am not sure if feelings or lov is ever respected.. someone told me i write my fears out ... yes i do.. coz sometimes talking t yourself helps atleast u know .. that no one can cheat on u .. !!! Funny ?? Yes it is !!
Wish i could just laugh out and say what a fool i was!!!

What does a Beauty hold in life?
Does that give a reason to be happy?
What is existence of a Beauty within a Human?
What does a Beauty hold in life?

So many questions arise in mind,
When i see you just going away from me,
Leaving the rest of the world,
I am left out to fight within me,

Did you ever how does it hurt me,
When u walk away and ignore me,
Did you ever know what i felt,
Felt when i heard ppl around talking of U n ME...

What if i am a few extra pounds,
Crazy to look at?
Didnt you ever read my heart,
But i guess feelings never mattered if u look at it,

Does Beauty take over once life,
It did take over mine ,
No matter how hard i try i fail,
Coz the beauty within me fails,

A strange topic for me to write on, but something made me write as i had few thoughts in my head which actually wanted to be jotted down on this page....


"While having breakfast with my colleagues spoke about our old DAYS in School & felt how beautiful those days were & what importance was give for this day, White n white uniform, 2 Plats, holding tri-color FLAG, seriousness while flag hosting n then singing "Jana Gana" that was the INDEPENDENCE DAY "A Very Happy Independence Day to you all " Saluting the lives of everyone because of whom i sleep a good night sleep ..."

Today while driving towards office i saw a man who fell from his scooter and there came 10 other men to help him.. for a sec i smiled.. not because of the man.. but a thought which instantly crossed my mind.. One of my friend always kept telling me that if a female falls everyone in the near by would to help her and if a man or a boy falls down nobody would bother... just wanted to stand for a mint. and click the picture and show it to my friends saying that People are changing , its not what you hear from others is always true ...Its INDIA .. Yahan Kuch bhi ho sakta hai .. ha ha ha .. 


Today is Ganesh Chaturthi and Eid together a day to remember .. we all wished each other ... and celebrating it together , who says we dont have UNITY in INDIA see us today .. here is an example. Actually felt happy to write this ... 


Love 
Nitz

 

Mushikavaahana modaka hastha,
Chaamara karna vilambitha sutra,
Vaamana rupa maheshwara putra,
Vighna vinaayaka paada namasthe...

MEANING: "O Lord Vinayaka! the remover of all obstacles, the son of Lord Shiva, with a form which is very short, with mouse as Thy vehicle, with sweet pudding in hand, with wide ears and long han...ging trunk, I prostrate at Thy lotus-like Feet!" 

Ganapati Bappa Moriya..... A Very Happy Ganesh Chatruthi to Everyone !!!
Stay Blessed always and may this year coming ahead brings loads of joy,peace,wealth, health,love in everyone's life....

Love,

Nitz

 

Assalaamu'alaykum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh - May God's peace and blessings be upon you...

Wishing you a very Happy Eid Mubarak.May your year ahead continue to be filled with a healthy, wealthy, and prosperity life, and May you have a Joyous and Spirited Eid Mubarak (Blessings) day with all your dear ones, including p...eople of all faiths and humanity, filled with Love, Peace, and Happiness .... Ameen !!

To all my friends who are celebrating this day... Not sure how else to wish ...

“Strangers are exciting, their mystery never ends. They are friends we haven't yet met.”


How true it is when they say STRANGERS are the FRIENDS we haven't met yet...


I am also looking forward for that Stranger to be a Friend i Haven't Met Yet...

I am waiting for someone who will never come
The smiles that i shared , tears that rolled out,
Why Blow of a wind that slowly tells me that you would return,
Return to where you belong, to where your love is,
I am waiting for someone who will never come,
Ask my heart to stop beating for you,
Let me loose so that i can fly again and feel your presence,
Let me run away from your memories,
I am still waiting for someone who will never come,
Why do i still wait when we know he wouldn't come back,
he answer to this is - I DON'T KNOW WHY , But i do !!!
Eyes doesn't stop looking at the door & ears for your voice,
I am waiting for someone who has to come,
I am waiting for someone who has to come for me & only me...

For Someone i waited all these years long,
Found in a place were i used to post few song,
Couldn't believe my heart beats with it along,
someone who shared smiles and made everyone Smile,
The one who cared of what i felt so long,
Touched my heart with his innocent words & thoughts,
One who promised to hold me and walk by me ,
One who just wanted me to smile & he smiled along,
Was i alone for this reason all these years long,
He wrote a beautiful song for me which was long,
But every word came from his heart along,
Could feel him in every word and was so pure,
A feeling that i never felt for this long,
You Made me feel special You made me feel important,
for all that you told me today i couldn't say BYE along.

The Word called " TRUST " How important it becomes for us to abide by this? Sometimes our own world revolves around this word. Funny yet true ... !!!!

Someone asked me to put my views on it ... and i kept thinking as to what should i write ? I have once broken the TRUST of someone close to my life and i know how it feels to be with that feeling .. We all some were in our life break this word into pieces and don't realize it; Until we face or feel the same. Its not easy to always be truthful with TRUST... with life's twist n turns we always play with it. 

Does that mean we don't care ? Does that mean we eternally breaking down someone ?

The Person who asked me - " What if a Friend uses the word TRUST ME while they know it doesn't matter at all... ? "

Answer to that - when a friend say's you TRUST me then just trust them coz all that they are trying to do is to make you feel comfortable and tension free... that mean they care for you and cant see you loosing hope .. on something which is bothering you ... Friends ; they are the most valuable gift you can posses. A Person who wouldn't bother what is the outcome but be with you and walk besides you forever and life long. Trust me - they are !! 

TRUST - why do we blindly have faith in someone? why dont we think before we go ahead and Trust them...? Why does faith takes a different look called TRUST? Questions are so many but when we try to answer them only thing comes in our mind and directly it connects to your heart and we say DUNNO KNOW WHY  ... We all go through this atleast once in life time. But do we stop Trusting people around us? we still somtimes blindly TRUST them and the cycle goes on... Love, Trust, Hope, Thoughts, care these are all a part of life which makes our life the most happening or the most miserable one to live with.

They Asked me - What if someone you Love says  " TRUST me I love you "? let me ask you how far can you be without trusting the other person whom you love, the one you want to live with, can you stop yourself from trusting them, even being hurt before?

Aj dhadkan fir kisi ko yaad karke tez huye,
Ankhen fir jhuki yun kisi ke intezar karte huye,
Aakhir kyu nahi tham thi yeh lo jo humare dil se shuru huye,
Kyu meherbaan woh humare pyar pe nahi huye..

Relationships are all binded with these elements .. how far we want to run away that close it gets to us. It becomes impossible for us to be without going by that word " TRUST "  hence dont rush into anything any relationship let it be... you need to think once and make sure you dont regret it later about failure but at the same time celebrate the success , as the time that's gone will never come back...
I have tried enough of trusting People who mattered to me in my life... but i guess always got stabbed because somewere i unknowingly broke someone's TRUST. How , when , where nobody knows but we as human's are bound to fall into it without any reasons... coz sometimes we forget to think from our heads and connect it straight to the heart.
So dont stop yourself from Trusting the one you want to , and when you do .. dont expect much in return as well.. Sometimes taking chances are good in life ...

Let me know what you feel about this , any suggestions or opinions are welcome ...

Love
Nitz

Here I am
Life that leads to a unknown destination
Road that i walked have come miles away
Smiles that i shared have just faded away
Here I am
Nothing left now or forever for me to believe in
Words that you spoke, promises that we made
Everything seems to have blown away
With just emptiness filled inside me all the way
Here I am
Here I am waiting for you to come back
Here I am thinking of you all night long
Here I am Darling Here I am Just for you....
Journey seems to be never ending when we walk alone
Desires and Dreams seems to be pointless
Happiness doesnt come towards you when you want it
Putting my hand towards to you for it to be holded again..
Here I am
Here I am waiting for you to come back
Here I am thinking of you all night long
Here I am Darling Here I am Just for you....

YAKEEN ek Aasan Shabd magar matlab kaye sare,
Dosti mein Yakeen ya Palon par yakeen kare,
Pyar par kare ya Zindagi puri juzar de hum Sari,
YAKEEN ek Aasan Shabd magar matlab kaye sare,

Yuhi Un raahon pe chaltey rahe hum zindagi sari,
Kartey they yeh dil aur aankhen unpar hi Yakeen Humari,
Ab kaise na kare in palon aur khawbon par yakeen,
Jis mein bus thi hai sari duniya Humari ...
YAKEEN ek Aasan Shabd magar matlab kaye sare,

Rooh se aj hume udaney do... Na roko ab humein,
Kahin dil ki udaan tham na jaye,
kahin yeh humein apne ap ko bhula na de,
Aj dil ki har taar se humein Judney do, Na roko ab humein,...

UDAAN bharni hain ab humein UD jana hain,
khawishon ko ab humein nahi balki khayalon ko hain jarurat humein,
Jo socha woh kar jaye, jo chaha woh paa jaye,
Rooh se aj hume udaney do... Na roko ab humein

It was LOVE and i Can feel it...

No Matter how far we are, No matter how distance had taken its chance.
It was LOVE and i Can feel it...
No matter i cant feel your touch any more ,
Cant feel your fingers running across my hair, My face, My lips,
Your whisper in my ears so gentle when it says - " I LOVE YOU "
It was LOVE and i Can feel it...
Your still here with me in My life, My words, My Heart,
I would stand with you in every part of the journey called LOVE,
Your touch, your breath , your kisses will still linger within ME,
It was LOVE and i Can feel it...
You will remain within me in all my deeds,
My eyes will tell you a story which only you will know,
Your a part of me which is to stay with me FOREVER..
It was LOVE and i Can feel it...
P.S I Love you ,
P.S I still Love you .........

A day without YOU Besides me seems so LONG
The NIGHT seems Endless the moon seems so DULL
Is it just the absence of You that i FEEL or am i being LONELY..
Every sec without YOU besides me seems so LONG,

Talks that we shared, PROMISES that we made
Laughs that created the MAGIC between Seems LOST
Is it just the absence of You that i FEEL or am i being LONELY..
Every sec without YOU besides me seems so LONG,

Was this the END of the WONDERFUL journey we walked
Has all the BONDS broken into pieces between us..
Is it just the absence of You that i FEEL or am i being LONELY..
Every sec without YOU besides me seems so LONG,

Kaun hai jo Dil ki baat zuban par layega,
Na chahathey Hue bhi Dil ka haal dil mein chupayega,
Kali raat ke bad Sundar Subah tho roz aayega,
Teek waise raat ke thame aansuo ke bad subah ek Muskurahat tho aayega.....

Judaa ap humse nahi apne ap se huye,
khafa hum apse se nahi apne ap se huye,
Pyar apse karke bhi ap hum Dur huye,
Jaise khata na karke bhi hum apke gunhegar huye..
 
Maut se rishta nibhana hume shuru kiya,
Jab Zindagi ne hume is raah par chalne mein majbur kiya,
kahi shamaa jal rahi thi aur dhuwa hume dikhaye diye,
Bhul gaye woh hume aur pyar unka bhulana hume nahi aaya...

Crazy Mix Of Emotion - LOVE :
Ha Ha Ha i know alot of debate about on this Topic, I am not a Pshyco of this WORD... But trying to Know what does it actually mean? Love Can be for anything, anyone, objects ... Not Constraint to only a PERSON.


Why do we Fall or Rise in LOVE ? Why does it make us go CRAZY ? Why do we forget that we might cross boundaries for it, and still go for it ? Is Committment always required for carrying this LOVE in our hearts ? Is TEARS n PAIN the only friends for LOVE ?


We fall in love with a dress and when we know we cant afford it .. we still thrive for it .. work hard , save money , give up our most loving things for the time being WHY ? Is the reason that we have fallen in LOVE with it ? we go Crazy for it and when we get in our hands within sometime we just take it for granted WHY?


It happens the same with person also ... We LOVE so much and sometimes one of them will feel the PINCH of that love and would want to get away with it or take it for granted? WHY ?


As i asked if its a person we fall or rise in LOVE ... why do we always end up being SAD, unhappy, tears ? Cant the person just understand its JUST love n nothing else ... What does love need - Care, affection, trust, honesty, dont we LOVE our friends ? Dont we expect the same from them ? We dont ask for a committment from a FRIEND coz its understood that we are there for each other , it silently says it all... We wish the one we love just understand this silently coz not every word is to be said or spoken out.. I have myself seen people in LOVE with objects, person, passion i mean they have gone crazy on it and i never understood WHY they do it?


LOVE for me - Finding someone and then falling into LOVE, then is not LOVE ... it should just HAPPEN..Make u go CRAZY...it should HIT us, make us spin upside down .. the beautiful Emotion between US. thts all .. LOVE doesnt always ask for a committment , ask for something which is not in your hands , it is something we do it unknowingly, its not being unfaithful to anyone , if you dont accept it ur being UNFAITHFUL to yourself .. Its Difficult to be unfaithful to urself .. U cant lie urself , can u? Why do we have to bound to something and cant selflessly Love ..


Finally I am in LOVE .. and guess i am still learning the stages, not sure if i will get back what i am looking for .. a peace of mind, that person to care abt me, Love is unconditional hence i do also LOVE unconditionally.


Let me know what you feel about This Mix of Emotion ... and this is not bound to any person but everything in general...
 
Love Nitz

Yes ... 23rd June was the day i was born ... today it seems just another day for me ... well no words nothing to say today ... may be this is life ...Happy Birthday NITA ...........................

" koi jho hume apne hone ka ehsaas dilaye,


khush bhi ho ya gum haath se haath chalkar dikhaye,


Rishton mein mazbhuti isisike Bharose chalpaye,


Andheron mein roshini ki umeed bhi yahi dilaye "



FRIENDS - Past few days i have notices what life would have been if we didnt have this strong BOND called FRIENDS...how easy is to HURT others and just get away with it ... That is the TIME you know ur FRIENDS are there as to no matter what happens they hold you up and make u feel as if everything was OKAY.



Something i wanted to share after seeing a FRIEND of Mine going through. Lets start by saying they became " Friends " coz i feel they clicked each other.. Khushi thought she could trust and relie on this person and may be a long run friendship would occur... Days passed and each day they promised and shared a beautiful relation... But then All of a Sudden things Changed and she was left alone ... the SMILE on her face disappread .. REASON - the person whom she believed to be FRIENDS with turned out to get away from her for some Social Reason .



Thinking they would be FRIENDS again she passed her days... I saw her each day that passed by and then thought that it was high time to talk to her.... When we spoke She told me that the one she trusted as friends.. was never a friend to her....



Something crossed my Mind .... Why do we start a talk and make the opp believe that u will always be there when you know you wont... ? Why do you have to make someone SMILe n then leave them with TEARS ? Friends are not for only happy times in life , No matter how you are , no matter how boring, Negative, Saddy, worst the other person is ? Arent we suppose to expect them the way they are ...



He left Khushi in such a state when she actually might have needed a friend like him the most ... But in return that FRIEND told her common friends that she was matured enough to think abt her life and carry on ... He cant intrude in her Personal LIfe ... and just walked off her life without talking to her one last time or giving her a reason as to why he made her believe in that relationship.



WHAT HE DID WAS IT RIGHT ? HE LEAVING A FRIEND IN PAIN DIDNT BOTHER TO KNOW HOW SHE IS , DIDNT WANNA HOLD HER UP WHEN SHE IS DOWN, ARENT FRIENDS SUPPOSE TO BE LIKE THAT !!!



What if tomorrow we are in such a situation wont we want someoen to hold us up, Make us feel better and yes in all these situations if we know that we are to close to that person and it would make a difference in their life .. Wouldnt we stay ? We say so much on FRIENDSHIP and when time comes to be there we run away ? I teared thinking abt it ... Its BEST not to have such a person in our life who wouldnt bother to Love you, Hold you, be on ur side when u need them the most.



Love
Nitz

The ROAD that i walked seemed so long today,
MATTERS that were important remained the same even today,
NO FEAR left in me of loosing you today,
Its the Distance and the TIME that is taking its CHANCES,
This is ME and will always remain the same for you AnyDAY

Silly Jokes that we cracked n the CRAP we spoke reminds me of YOU ever DAY,
I know Heart WANDERS and gets IMPULSIVE  as passing days,
There is a RAY OF HOPE that i see within my heart,
Soul waits and believes you will RETURN someDAY,
This is ME and will always remain the same for you ANYDAY,

Friendship is BONDED with Love and Trust Which will never be forgotten anyDAY,
Wet are the Eyes and tears flow in hearts but SMILE over my face will carry EveryDAy,
Someone told me to be STRONG and be what i wanna be,
To Love UNCONDITIONAL and Trust without any questions on our way,
This is ME and will always remain the same for you ANYDAY,

How may of us follow your <3 ??
Was sitting around my cubical and thinking on this topic... Strange but we say so many things but we follow the 10% of it only WHY??
What is stopping us? Society ? family values ? our own principles ?

I am sure there is something that we all stop ourselves for. When i thought of myself guess what came in my mind ----- Parents!!
So much pressure from their end to keep everything perfect in my life, i know it isn't BAD but sometimes these prefect things have always stopped me by doing things i wanted to .. most of the time.

Did you feel the same? If yes, then why do we tend to lean on this reasons.. there should be nothing that will stop us from chasing our DREAMS out DESIRES n our GOALS!!!

LIFE is such a simple journey .. It always needed Love, companionship, Dreams to chase and goals to complete it. But we have complicated it so much that today under each of them we have sub-category and we get distressed about it and then blame the ALMIGHTY and LIFE !!!! Is it not our issue that we are unable to decide what we want and what we should stay away from?

Why Cant we sit for a moment and think what makes us happy and just carry on with that? We don't have to think of what will happen in our next birth if the society calls our deeds as SINS. ONE LIFE and we should be thankful to the ALMIGHTY and look forward for all the chances that we get to make we fulfill all our dreams , desires. I am sure people who understand us will also be happy with us n share a SMILE.

Good Morning Everyone !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Keep smiling :-P
Be Blessed <3

"Even if you ask me a thousands times over and over again, my love is always you.
What must I do to make you come back, to make you love me again?
Would you know of my burning heart?
Even if I try and try to surpress it, I cry.......
I can't forget and I end up looking for you again.
I can't take another step and though you're not here,
I long for you again and again, as I call out your name.."

This is So true .. its simple but very difficult when it actually go through this phase in life. Something can never be understood but just felt. One of this is LOVE... making them understand what it is ..its next to impossible but yes they understand better when they feel it. But the saddest part is by the time the other person feels it .. you have almost spend most of the moments unknown n unfelt...

And once the person comes in our life and then goes back is when u r heart cries out. We always wonder Why they left? why didn't turn back and see if we longed for them? why didnt they feel the same pain that we feel? We indulge in such questions that even when we want to let it go we are unable to. Another emotion which i personally cant handle is LET IT GO ... i can never and i have never done that .. everytime we try we get into it more n more. I know Love is not the only emotion or something we should FOCUS but yes its a important part of our lifes. We might be the best in our work , the most glam person around, reached the heights of the sky but when you come back home your eyes will always search for that one soul with whom u connect.

How much ever we try and be away and debate on this end of the day we all Rise n Fall in LOVE... It Holds u up in some cases and it does put u down some times. But it still feels the best when u feel it in ur HEARTS

Love you always ... you all live in my heart and shall always be there !!!!

Nita

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ty7QxmNvwNk

This is for you dear :-) No grudges , No crying any more , No blaming and the best which i am sure u will feel relieved is NO MORE Questions anymore.

A friend saying Bye for sometime .... Miss ya
Ni

Chances - We normally don't take Chances in life thinking of what might happen or turn out. Well i can be honest here - I NEVER TOOK chances too in life or in any path. I always was scared and guess what i fairly did anything wonderful or felt of being amazed huh, Funny how things change when ur mindset changes. I have heard this and never applied...but i guess now i did:


 Do you want to be safe and good, or do you want to take a chance and be great? 

What would you choose - Just to good and safe which is in a way also favorable to many coz its LIFE for them and they are comfortable living their life as that gives them excitement in a way itself. There are those who would love to risk and take a chance on the path and sometimes a failure but sometimes turns out to be fair game which is great as its something we decided and fun putting ur mind in it.


Chances are taken in many a conditions; we should take chances in life coz what needs to go will always Go .. nothing can stop it.. but what if we give one try to it and see or feel a differences...

Have anyone of you taken CHNACES in life about anything ?
Please do share your thoughts !!!

Love Nitz

Ajeeb es dil ki halath hai aj kya kahe,
Thame rakha hai es pyaar ko es kadar humne,
Muddathon ke baad ehsaas hua zindagi jeena hai kya kahe,
Jab jeena shuru kiya dil se unhe jane diya humne....

Pyaar ko thame nahi rakh payengay hum bhi kya kahe,
Bada mushkhil hai unhe rokna yeh jana humne,
Hokar bhi humare nahi huye humare kya kahe,
Baarish hai aj aansuo ki es dil mein chupaye humne....

An Emptiness Today That I Felt: 

"There comes a point when you just Love someone. Not because they're good, or bad, or anything really. You just love them. It doesn't mean you'll be together forever. It doesn't mean you won't hurt each other. It just mean you Love them. Sometimes in spite of who they are, and sometimes because of who they are. And you know that they Love you, sometimes because of who you are, and sometimes in spite of it"

Yes very true infact, we don't have to love someone because we see something in them coz when that happens and time passes by love also fades away. When your heart realizes that you love someone no matter how they are , no matter if they black or white, old or young, rich or poor, no matter whatever, but there is LOVE and reason becomes simpler - You love them coz of LOVE and nothing else .


Everyone i met till now told me that LOVE is DIMINISHING from this world, but they dont see the fact that is the only emotion that keeps everyone alive. We have so many debates on this LOVE but do we actually mean everything that we say? Life is interesting as it teaches so many emotions and roles to play and tangle it up for US.

                                    Forget and Forgive
This Line ahh i would have heard it from so many of them. Even from those who arent following this; yeah that is funny Ha Ha i know i thought so. FORGIVENESS is such a difficult word for me to understand sometimes.


FORGIVE - Why do you think you need to forgive when someone close to you has hurt you more than once?
FORGET - Can you ever forget someone who touched ur heart or sould once in a lifetime, a friend or even a stranger?


Yes, i guess i am getting this too complicated but this is what i feel or even go through when i think of forgiving someone close to my heart. It's entirely on we who will decide to move on or stop our life there and keep weeping about it. As far as i have seen people generally move on and am sure they are mush happier today, but there is a small space in thei corner of their heart of the pain. The rest of the group stop their life and think the world ends there as they have been hurt. BLAME game then starts, huh

Sometimes i wonder do we have so much of time left in our life theat we waste in thinking who hurt us and how come we HURT them back. Life is too short and the policy of FORGET & FORGIVE works pretty well. We do meet people in our journey of life who might not be the ones for us, but we end to lean on them and then when they HURT i chokes us up. I wonder have i ever Forgiven anyone in my life .. people did come n go in my life as well. but i guess i choose to move on and then still a corner of my heart i have the pain of being HURT and then i guess i havent FORGIVEN but just Forgotton them.

I did sometimes Cry over it when i sat alone and that thought crossed over it. Felt sorry of myself that even moving life ahead i couldnt come over it. Didnt have a solution, cos i didnt wanna go back to them and ask WHY DID THEY DO THIS TO ME? WHY? will that matter to them? will they have a good explaination for this? huh i laughed and thought first of all WILL BE I BE HAPPY AFTER THAT!!!! I dont think so, coz then that reason would Haunt me, so i guess it was time for me to FORGIVE them in my heart and get out of this sadness.

If you have been hurt or felt alone .. just think twice before you weep out, is it WORTH? will that help you become better person for the other loved ones. I have met the best of people now in my life .. they make me a better person day by day. Someone i know i can relie on and also lean on when i need a shoulders. TIME n TIDE waits for none !! its is so true ... Life is too short for us to weep for that person who doesnt bother or belong to stay with us. FORGIVE without FORGETTING is a useless exercise, untill and unless u forgive them forgetting them is a stupid thing to think of. You need to realize there are new ventures, new stories to write, new people to meet, new feelings to feel. We cant miss all this coz they still sitting with a broken HEART.

I would always would love to see each one of you to smile from bottom of your heart. Coz when u smile the magic wanders the world around you. Its like someone somewere just lives to see you SMILE, and we are not aware of it, but it surely feels good. There is ray of HOPE for a better tomorrow, Life filled with what ever you dreamt off. So come on, wipe the tears following and close your eyes and just FORGIVE them, juz say it to yourself  " Whatever happened is over and i forgive you for that " and then have a SMILE on your Pretty face, Start your life with new ideas, new people, chasing your dreamz.

Remember... Every Morning a new stories starts, a new venture , Few good people we meet n few we just wanna pass by.. Every sec we spend today is worthwhile remembering. A smile that we share , A laugh that we have,talks that we exchange will always differe by the end of the day. Hence live it the FULLEST and let go what ever is in your mind and heart coz we never know if we would get a chance again :-)

Keep Smiling from HEART :-)
Love,
Nitz

Its Amazing when i sit down to watch a movie, keep the pop-corn ready, some good drink to go with it. A mix of emotions which i go through while watching any romantic movie. Guess i never liked action movies as there are no emotions in them LOLzz. I still remember that i cried till the end of the movie and awhile after that also is  " Taare Zameen par " and my first movie that i teared was - " Notebook " It was too much of emotions for me to handle it.


Life - I think its also similar to movies, written and directed by GOD himself and we are the character just playing our roles. Along with the movie we also tend to get in action and emotions sometimes. Few are completely emotional and few ones are rocking , action pact. Ha Ha Smiling here thinking what name should i give for my movie?? I am sure few people will come up with weird ones !!!


There has been always something happening, new conversations, people's view & opinions, Gossips HA HA. But what is interesting is that we all talk about LOVE, LIFE and other things, the top priorities on the discussion remains the discussion of LIFE< LOVE<FRIENDS. I get so much involved in it that sometimes i kinda become a part of it , its not bad actually but its just a conversation. The reality and what happens to each person is a different thing all together, the trust and beliefs i see there is something wonderful. Its like there will be someone who will shed out their fears , sorrows , happiness which will mirror mine sometimes .. that is the time i feel i am not playing the only character but there are others too .. May be, but as time passed i met few people who showed me the truth of LIFE which i never felt before .. there were times i teared out for them. No i wasnt being a agony aunt but just while knowing and making a bond with them.


Life is Hard !!! Life is FUN !!! Life is Action Pact !!! So many parts of this movie but the director is just ONE who sits above all. LOLzzzz Isnt he Great ??


Humans have inherited a slogan for themselves - Whatever happens, happens for the best !!


Hence whatever they go through they take it as test drive.. aur bus yuhi chalti jati hai unki gadi. 


Few days i have been thinking all this and didn't know how to pen it down, as i wasn't myself, so many changes around me didnt know how to react & was a little lost as well. As all the movies end, not sure how the ending as been decided for me by the director, but i guess - Life is Strange , were we are happy and sometimes Sad. Every day spent seems so perfectly planned by HIM. I met few amazing people online and our bond went strong, i felt as if we knew each other from a long time, seemed like yesterday we got apart. Couldn't believe they spoke my words when it was in my mind only.


That feeling was something like a movie recap scene ha ha ha. These lines  " life is a stage were we are just the dolls and God is the one making us play our part " is very old one but i kinda relate to it now and that is what inspires me ... But one good thing in all these is the bond that you own are so beautiful that you gt to keep them safe till then end. I will be proud if i do that. Hold on to all i have till the last mint of my life.


I am sure all well will end well.....


I guess i bored u guys enough now !!!!
Have Fun :-)


Love,
Nita

                 

Life is a ROLLERCOASTER, If you have
someone you love with your ride.. then the journey has its known JOY !

Life!! yes indeed its been a Roller Coaster for me so many turns, ups, downs, slowness. We talk so much on this topic and we hear so many different things and opinions on it. I had a similar discussion on FaceBook in a popular group named "Jiyo Life" means "Live Life". We all do live our life, some regret things whole of their life, few waste their whole life running behind materialistic things, bunch of people like me spent their life invading love and get things complicated. 

 If someone asked you - What is life mean for you? I am sure we wouldn't have a ready answer, Y?? Because our mind n Soul get stuck and there wanders so many questions.. I know we need to keep it simple but i would fake if i say its "simple" atleast for me its not. My mind always wanders between these questions, and then finally i get lost between them. 

The Conversations i had were definitely good that is one group i found so many people with different thoughts  and opinions, was also amazed to see few just like me. I sure indeed made alot more buddies now and also know that i have someone who will listen when i wanna talk. I have found most of them update their profiles with either something on Life n Love or something that they found un-usual. A loneliness within me is going away by being there.. listening to them. Once when i felt i had no one to talk or share what i really felt, as a miracle i get in touch with all my school mates and then buddies from FB who do mean something to me now.. i know i am getting into addiction but, if a addiction is giving u a peace of mind i don't think its a false addict. 

The line above - " Life is a rollercoaster, If you have someone you love with your ride.. then the journey becomes more joyful " I felt so it was on Facebook. I am sure what i was thinking when i wrote this , but yes for all of us and our lives when u have someone You feel comfortable or in love with makes life more colorful n joyful. I never mentioned that someone should be only your partner but anyone a friend, lover, parent, child anyone who can get that sweet n pure smile on your face. Which you make your heart stronger and makes u wish for life more. Will that not make our life a joyful ride?? 

I did find something that came from one of my buddy- " always smile no matter how broken u r, life is as beautiful as love, think always like that; life is as simple as love, take it like that; both r not that much complicated"

 So even when you feel that everything's down, when u think your alone, mainly when you think of LIFE - think of that someone who gets this rollercoaster ride with you and makes it more happening and see there will be a smile on your face, maybe a dimple might also fall.. :-)

Let me know your opinions on this !!

Love,

Nita

 

 

                                         Hope - A Perfect Word

Nita

Mornings - Sadness flies on the wings of the morning and out of the heart of darkness comes the light. ~Jean Giraudoux

Such a Beautiful thought it is, I am impressed !!