Life & Love -- Alot to Learn from!!

Crazy Mix Of Emotion - LOVE :
Ha Ha Ha i know alot of debate about on this Topic, I am not a Pshyco of this WORD... But trying to Know what does it actually mean? Love Can be for anything, anyone, objects ... Not Constraint to only a PERSON.


Why do we Fall or Rise in LOVE ? Why does it make us go CRAZY ? Why do we forget that we might cross boundaries for it, and still go for it ? Is Committment always required for carrying this LOVE in our hearts ? Is TEARS n PAIN the only friends for LOVE ?


We fall in love with a dress and when we know we cant afford it .. we still thrive for it .. work hard , save money , give up our most loving things for the time being WHY ? Is the reason that we have fallen in LOVE with it ? we go Crazy for it and when we get in our hands within sometime we just take it for granted WHY?


It happens the same with person also ... We LOVE so much and sometimes one of them will feel the PINCH of that love and would want to get away with it or take it for granted? WHY ?


As i asked if its a person we fall or rise in LOVE ... why do we always end up being SAD, unhappy, tears ? Cant the person just understand its JUST love n nothing else ... What does love need - Care, affection, trust, honesty, dont we LOVE our friends ? Dont we expect the same from them ? We dont ask for a committment from a FRIEND coz its understood that we are there for each other , it silently says it all... We wish the one we love just understand this silently coz not every word is to be said or spoken out.. I have myself seen people in LOVE with objects, person, passion i mean they have gone crazy on it and i never understood WHY they do it?


LOVE for me - Finding someone and then falling into LOVE, then is not LOVE ... it should just HAPPEN..Make u go CRAZY...it should HIT us, make us spin upside down .. the beautiful Emotion between US. thts all .. LOVE doesnt always ask for a committment , ask for something which is not in your hands , it is something we do it unknowingly, its not being unfaithful to anyone , if you dont accept it ur being UNFAITHFUL to yourself .. Its Difficult to be unfaithful to urself .. U cant lie urself , can u? Why do we have to bound to something and cant selflessly Love ..


Finally I am in LOVE .. and guess i am still learning the stages, not sure if i will get back what i am looking for .. a peace of mind, that person to care abt me, Love is unconditional hence i do also LOVE unconditionally.


Let me know what you feel about This Mix of Emotion ... and this is not bound to any person but everything in general...
 
Love Nitz

Yes ... 23rd June was the day i was born ... today it seems just another day for me ... well no words nothing to say today ... may be this is life ...Happy Birthday NITA ...........................

" koi jho hume apne hone ka ehsaas dilaye,


khush bhi ho ya gum haath se haath chalkar dikhaye,


Rishton mein mazbhuti isisike Bharose chalpaye,


Andheron mein roshini ki umeed bhi yahi dilaye "



FRIENDS - Past few days i have notices what life would have been if we didnt have this strong BOND called FRIENDS...how easy is to HURT others and just get away with it ... That is the TIME you know ur FRIENDS are there as to no matter what happens they hold you up and make u feel as if everything was OKAY.



Something i wanted to share after seeing a FRIEND of Mine going through. Lets start by saying they became " Friends " coz i feel they clicked each other.. Khushi thought she could trust and relie on this person and may be a long run friendship would occur... Days passed and each day they promised and shared a beautiful relation... But then All of a Sudden things Changed and she was left alone ... the SMILE on her face disappread .. REASON - the person whom she believed to be FRIENDS with turned out to get away from her for some Social Reason .



Thinking they would be FRIENDS again she passed her days... I saw her each day that passed by and then thought that it was high time to talk to her.... When we spoke She told me that the one she trusted as friends.. was never a friend to her....



Something crossed my Mind .... Why do we start a talk and make the opp believe that u will always be there when you know you wont... ? Why do you have to make someone SMILe n then leave them with TEARS ? Friends are not for only happy times in life , No matter how you are , no matter how boring, Negative, Saddy, worst the other person is ? Arent we suppose to expect them the way they are ...



He left Khushi in such a state when she actually might have needed a friend like him the most ... But in return that FRIEND told her common friends that she was matured enough to think abt her life and carry on ... He cant intrude in her Personal LIfe ... and just walked off her life without talking to her one last time or giving her a reason as to why he made her believe in that relationship.



WHAT HE DID WAS IT RIGHT ? HE LEAVING A FRIEND IN PAIN DIDNT BOTHER TO KNOW HOW SHE IS , DIDNT WANNA HOLD HER UP WHEN SHE IS DOWN, ARENT FRIENDS SUPPOSE TO BE LIKE THAT !!!



What if tomorrow we are in such a situation wont we want someoen to hold us up, Make us feel better and yes in all these situations if we know that we are to close to that person and it would make a difference in their life .. Wouldnt we stay ? We say so much on FRIENDSHIP and when time comes to be there we run away ? I teared thinking abt it ... Its BEST not to have such a person in our life who wouldnt bother to Love you, Hold you, be on ur side when u need them the most.



Love
Nitz

The ROAD that i walked seemed so long today,
MATTERS that were important remained the same even today,
NO FEAR left in me of loosing you today,
Its the Distance and the TIME that is taking its CHANCES,
This is ME and will always remain the same for you AnyDAY

Silly Jokes that we cracked n the CRAP we spoke reminds me of YOU ever DAY,
I know Heart WANDERS and gets IMPULSIVE  as passing days,
There is a RAY OF HOPE that i see within my heart,
Soul waits and believes you will RETURN someDAY,
This is ME and will always remain the same for you ANYDAY,

Friendship is BONDED with Love and Trust Which will never be forgotten anyDAY,
Wet are the Eyes and tears flow in hearts but SMILE over my face will carry EveryDAy,
Someone told me to be STRONG and be what i wanna be,
To Love UNCONDITIONAL and Trust without any questions on our way,
This is ME and will always remain the same for you ANYDAY,

How may of us follow your <3 ??
Was sitting around my cubical and thinking on this topic... Strange but we say so many things but we follow the 10% of it only WHY??
What is stopping us? Society ? family values ? our own principles ?

I am sure there is something that we all stop ourselves for. When i thought of myself guess what came in my mind ----- Parents!!
So much pressure from their end to keep everything perfect in my life, i know it isn't BAD but sometimes these prefect things have always stopped me by doing things i wanted to .. most of the time.

Did you feel the same? If yes, then why do we tend to lean on this reasons.. there should be nothing that will stop us from chasing our DREAMS out DESIRES n our GOALS!!!

LIFE is such a simple journey .. It always needed Love, companionship, Dreams to chase and goals to complete it. But we have complicated it so much that today under each of them we have sub-category and we get distressed about it and then blame the ALMIGHTY and LIFE !!!! Is it not our issue that we are unable to decide what we want and what we should stay away from?

Why Cant we sit for a moment and think what makes us happy and just carry on with that? We don't have to think of what will happen in our next birth if the society calls our deeds as SINS. ONE LIFE and we should be thankful to the ALMIGHTY and look forward for all the chances that we get to make we fulfill all our dreams , desires. I am sure people who understand us will also be happy with us n share a SMILE.

Good Morning Everyone !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Keep smiling :-P
Be Blessed <3

"Even if you ask me a thousands times over and over again, my love is always you.
What must I do to make you come back, to make you love me again?
Would you know of my burning heart?
Even if I try and try to surpress it, I cry.......
I can't forget and I end up looking for you again.
I can't take another step and though you're not here,
I long for you again and again, as I call out your name.."

This is So true .. its simple but very difficult when it actually go through this phase in life. Something can never be understood but just felt. One of this is LOVE... making them understand what it is ..its next to impossible but yes they understand better when they feel it. But the saddest part is by the time the other person feels it .. you have almost spend most of the moments unknown n unfelt...

And once the person comes in our life and then goes back is when u r heart cries out. We always wonder Why they left? why didn't turn back and see if we longed for them? why didnt they feel the same pain that we feel? We indulge in such questions that even when we want to let it go we are unable to. Another emotion which i personally cant handle is LET IT GO ... i can never and i have never done that .. everytime we try we get into it more n more. I know Love is not the only emotion or something we should FOCUS but yes its a important part of our lifes. We might be the best in our work , the most glam person around, reached the heights of the sky but when you come back home your eyes will always search for that one soul with whom u connect.

How much ever we try and be away and debate on this end of the day we all Rise n Fall in LOVE... It Holds u up in some cases and it does put u down some times. But it still feels the best when u feel it in ur HEARTS

Love you always ... you all live in my heart and shall always be there !!!!

Nita

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ty7QxmNvwNk

This is for you dear :-) No grudges , No crying any more , No blaming and the best which i am sure u will feel relieved is NO MORE Questions anymore.

A friend saying Bye for sometime .... Miss ya
Ni

Chances - We normally don't take Chances in life thinking of what might happen or turn out. Well i can be honest here - I NEVER TOOK chances too in life or in any path. I always was scared and guess what i fairly did anything wonderful or felt of being amazed huh, Funny how things change when ur mindset changes. I have heard this and never applied...but i guess now i did:


 Do you want to be safe and good, or do you want to take a chance and be great? 

What would you choose - Just to good and safe which is in a way also favorable to many coz its LIFE for them and they are comfortable living their life as that gives them excitement in a way itself. There are those who would love to risk and take a chance on the path and sometimes a failure but sometimes turns out to be fair game which is great as its something we decided and fun putting ur mind in it.


Chances are taken in many a conditions; we should take chances in life coz what needs to go will always Go .. nothing can stop it.. but what if we give one try to it and see or feel a differences...

Have anyone of you taken CHNACES in life about anything ?
Please do share your thoughts !!!

Love Nitz

Ajeeb es dil ki halath hai aj kya kahe,
Thame rakha hai es pyaar ko es kadar humne,
Muddathon ke baad ehsaas hua zindagi jeena hai kya kahe,
Jab jeena shuru kiya dil se unhe jane diya humne....

Pyaar ko thame nahi rakh payengay hum bhi kya kahe,
Bada mushkhil hai unhe rokna yeh jana humne,
Hokar bhi humare nahi huye humare kya kahe,
Baarish hai aj aansuo ki es dil mein chupaye humne....

An Emptiness Today That I Felt: 

"There comes a point when you just Love someone. Not because they're good, or bad, or anything really. You just love them. It doesn't mean you'll be together forever. It doesn't mean you won't hurt each other. It just mean you Love them. Sometimes in spite of who they are, and sometimes because of who they are. And you know that they Love you, sometimes because of who you are, and sometimes in spite of it"

Yes very true infact, we don't have to love someone because we see something in them coz when that happens and time passes by love also fades away. When your heart realizes that you love someone no matter how they are , no matter if they black or white, old or young, rich or poor, no matter whatever, but there is LOVE and reason becomes simpler - You love them coz of LOVE and nothing else .


Everyone i met till now told me that LOVE is DIMINISHING from this world, but they dont see the fact that is the only emotion that keeps everyone alive. We have so many debates on this LOVE but do we actually mean everything that we say? Life is interesting as it teaches so many emotions and roles to play and tangle it up for US.